Relationship Questions – Please Share Your Opinion…

December 3, 2009 by Sharlene Le | 3 Comments

Why do men/women engage in or play relationship games with each other?
What do men/women really want from a relationship?
Why are men/women scared to fall in love?
What causes insecurity in a relationship?
How can you prove to your significant other that you can be trusted?
From your perspective, what does a happy healthy relationship consist of?
What makes your relationship great?
Why is your significant other your Mr. or Mrs. perfect?
How many times have you truly been in love?
What is it about the female body that attracts men?
What trait(s) from the opposite sex is a turn on for you?
Why do men/women cheat?
Why is it that men/women sometimes want what they can’t have, and then as soon as they get it, they act like they don’t want it anymore?
Is it greener on the other side? (I personally don’t believe so)
Why hold grudges with each other? Why add fuel to the fire when later on you realize that in the end, it all wasn’t worth it!

If there are any questions that you may have and would like an opinion or advice on, please don’t hesitate to ask and I’ll add it to the list above =)

Lisa

my personal opinions:
1) to feel like they are in control
2) Security, stability
3) for fear of rejection
4) low self esteem
5) by being open about your activities
6) laughter
7) his acceptance to try new things even when I don’t
he’s not and i don’t want him to be.
9) once
10) a stare
11) arms and eyes
12) for a rush, for attention, to feel wanted
13) competition. we need to feel jealousy in order to realize they might be worth it.
14) at times- if that’s what you really want.
15) to teach the other person a lesson.

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Paul {catdozer}

Are these games for the betterment of the relationship? Or is one person trying to establish to is the alpha person in this relationship?
Absolute trust knowing that their eyes are for only for each other.
Have they be hurt by another at some time or do they really want to be a loner with no one to share their highs and lows. Does a person only want the material things in life?Is this person just insecure?By not be happy with themselves or do they really know what they want from life.
Lack of trust I think!
Trust is earned from the start of a relationship there should be no need what so ever to earn trust.Do I trust this person with my life?
Speak of how you feel, share your troubles,do your household work together have some hobbies/sports that are your own,don’t be a control freak,have some good honest fun pillow fight on the bed one never knows where that good end up,be considerate of the other’s feelings, listen to each other, a little surprise for the other on occasions, be flexible in what you need to do
To a lot of men it is the great figure the supermodel looks, busty with nice curves etc. to me it is the eyes, their smile. I have never been a fan of the waif models.
Personality is the turn on
Cheaters are insecure and they want to be dominant and give the air that they are the best!!!
Ego tripping for their own insecure minds
Holding grudges is to me a sign of lack of maturity in a person one must let go.

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lamine

hello dear in first excuse my bad english ok
so i love a women the women that i want marry him
i need women i need ti feel that i am loved when i work or iam out in street or travel i love feel that there is a women who thing for me fear for me and wait for me when i am with my women all problem in the world go away just when i look in his eyes when she smile i feel happy for a long time i die for my women i will fight against all the world for my women
and belive sex is in the last position in our relation
because i love my women and she love me

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