How can one tell the difference between lust and love? From my perspective, lust is more of a physical attraction between each other and the need for a strong emotional connection doesn’t exist.
How do you know when you’re in love? Love is when you you’re physically attracted to each other, the chemistry just surrounds you both whenever you’re in each others presence, you’re both willing to do anything and everything to make each other happy and you’re constantly thinking of the other person.
Are You In Love?
How many of you can actually say that you are in love? Many I’m sure, but how many can say that the other person loves you back? Men tend to remain in the lust stage a bit longer than females. Women tend to fall in love a lot easier and faster than men do. Men do not appreciate the feeling of being pressured, it will only force them to be distant, when it comes to love, they want to make that decision on their own and not have someone tell them how they should feel. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman telling her man that she loves and is in love with him, but she needs to understand that men are not always on the same page.
My advice – if you really love someone, just be patient, do not apply pressure to your relationship in hopes of gaining love. I know this is so cliche, but if it was meant to be, it will happen. All you can do is cherish and enjoy every moment that you spend together. When that moment comes, it will mean so much more!!!
By: Sharlene Le
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