I’m sure we’ve all been truly in love at least once in our lifetime. If you know me, you know that I’m a sucker for love, I’ve been in love 3 times in my life so far, the first two loves of my life took me for granted, but that didn’t stop me, because I love the feeling of being in love, even it it ends up hurting me to the core. I’ve come to understand that heartbreaks are just part of life and you can’t avoid it, all you can do is learn how to cope with it and realize that life goes on! (which is a skill that is learned and not acquired); With that being said, I truly admire the ones that follow their hearts with the hope of having a happy ending and their arms holding the one they love the most.
Truly, Madly, Deeply
When you’re truly madly deeply in love with someone, you tend to give it your all, each love in your life is a different experience. You find yourself willing to do anything and everything for this one person. Sky’s the limit, there isn’t anything that you won’t do. This person is on your mind all day long, you randomly reminisce of sweet precious happy memories when you’re away from this person, you have absolutely nothing but the positives to think about because the positive traits supersede the negatives by far. Keep in mind that no one is perfect, we all have our flaws, but it’s always amazing when one finds that special someone and falls head over heels in love (regardless of their flaws). It doesn’t matter what this person does, you will always forgive them, (to a certain extent). Note: Abuse of any sort, cheating….etc…is just not tolerable!
Making Long Distance Love Work
I have a friend that not only believes but he feels that he’s found his soul mate, the only obstacle is the location of where they reside. He resides in the United States and she resides in South America; they’ve been making this relationship work so far, and it can only get stronger as long as both parties understand and accept the downfall of being in a long distance relationship along with comprehending the long road ahead. Traveling is always available, but the cost of traveling makes it very difficult for them to see each other at any given time hence one of the downfalls of being in a long distance relationship.
- How do you cope with the fact that you’ve found your soul mate but you can’t see him/her at any given moment?
- What do you do when you lay down at night and all you can think about is your love?
- Do you have any idea what it feels like to want your lover to hold you but you know it’s impossible at at that very moment?
- How long do you think you can go on without being able to see the one face you want to see the most?
Giving It Your All
I haven’t ever been in a serious long distance relationship before, so I can only share my opinions and not my advice because I have yet to experience what my friend is going through at this very moment. He is truly fighting with all his power to bring the two of them closer; He’s working so hard to gain the funds that will send him into her arms; He’s been utilizing Skype and other social networks to stay in touch with her; Most men would probably give up, but that only means that they fail to see love from the eyes of a person in True Love. As long as the communication and trust continue to stay alive, all will be well! There are lots of things that can be done to keep a long distance relationship alive, and my friend and his love have been doing it all, I only wish that it remains strong and strengthens until they can be in each others arms each and every day!
My thoughts are that my friend is doing the right thing by being optimistic. He’s continuing to be strong as each day and night goes by, he’s fighting this universe for the well deserved relationship between him and his true love. He’s doing what his heart tells him to do regardless of what anyone else says. He listens to the perspective of others, but in the end, he will always follow his heart, which is one thing we all admire!
We’ve all heard or read about love stories like this, and we all feel the pain and achy hearts of the lovers at stake, so let’s just show our support by sharing thoughts that can shed some light on his situation. Great words of wisdom is always helpful to us all when we’re in tough situations, having support from friends and readers is what motivates us all, at times it helps us see things clearly or from a perspective we didn’t imagine. So don’t be shy, share your thoughts =)
Regardless I would love for his story to be heard, I want the universe to adjust itself in a way that will bring them together. I hope and only wish that I can shake her hand or hug her and tell her how lucky she is to have found a man that will do anything and everything for the love he shares with her.
My friend wrote, produced and sang a song for her, he’s an artist, please check out his video and show your support.
You can also help bring him and his love closer together by purchasing his song on itunes.
Thank you to all my readers, I really appreciate your loyalty more than you can imagine!